Wednesday Randomness: Love at First Sight, Soul Mates, Destiny?

Happy Wednesday, folks. 🙂 This week we’re talking about love at first sight, soul mates, and destiny…and whether we believe in them.

For me, the short and quick answer is no. As a writer – particularly one who writes romance – the ideas of love at first sight, soul mates and destiny are ones I love and love to work with. In real life, though, I really don’t believe in them.

Attraction at first sight, oh yeah. Love, nah.

Soul mates and destiny… I don’t believe in people being meant for each other or there’s a cosmic force bringing two people together for a greater purpose.

My belief is love and relationships aren’t magical.  They are the result of time and a whole lot of work.


I guess that’s it from me this week. LOL Check out the other ladies’ veiw on love at first sight, soul mates and desiny.

Bronwyn Green Gwendolyn Cease | Jessica De La Rosa Kris Norris

Until next week!


4 Replies to “Wednesday Randomness: Love at First Sight, Soul Mates, Destiny?”

  1. I totally agree with you. Relationships take work, really hard work to make them function. If you aren’t willing to take that time, no amount of attraction is going to hold you together.

  2. Alrighty then… I’m at the point where love, itself, is a mystery. Though I can say that love at first sight does exist, even if it only pertains to my kids. I can honestly say that I loved them from the moment they arrived… probably even before. So… yeah. It’s like Maleficent—true love does exist. It just might not be what we first think of.

  3. I also believe in attraction at first sight. It’s almost as your mind goes through quick game of “kill, marry, screw” and you have a split second to put the person you just saw in one of those categories. When I’m grocery shopping most people end up in the “kill” category because – let’s just be honest – I don’t care how hot you are don’t leave your cart in the middle of the aisle.

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